I’ve always thought a staycation was an odd idea. After all, don’t people make the most of their local amenities just in the midst of normal life? Thinking back to my childhood, there were no local amenities. No safe swimming beaches, no real mountains within several hours drive, lakes where my father liked to fish were also a few hours away. Anything interesting required a long trip. But to get a few hours off the farm, where my parents spent almost every hour of almost every day, they would take us on a drive. We’d grab some books to read in case we got bored (being bored was the worst thing ever, and we were never allowed to complain!), my mother would pack an afternoon tea, and off we’d go into the countryside, to areas that our daily lives never took us. My mother liked to look at houses, especially new ones, and would design her new house (which she finally got when I was 17) in her head … and out loud. My father would farm all the other farmer’s fields – in his head and out loud. We’d pick a side road and pull in for afternoon tea on the verge. A blanket would cover the grasses and weeds, hot tea would emerge from the thermos flask, biscuits and cakes had been packed in a tin, and we’d enjoy our outdoor adventure somewhere different. Well, my parents and I enjoyed it. My older sister hated the drives, but I’m not sure how my younger sister feels about them. I must ask her.
These days, my husband and I like driving too. His parents never did it, but when we took them out they loved it! I love a road trip, but even a short drive around our city or region, to places we don’t normally go, is like a mini-break away. A mini-staycation perhaps? I like driving around all or any of the bays and coastlines of our city. The weather is always different, and therefore the views and atmosphere is different. This year though, because of incessant wind, we have tended to stay indoors. Apart from a couple of times in January, there have been few opportunities to get out of our car and wander along a different shore, to eat an ice-cream (without getting sand blown into it). And so our excursions have been limited.
Last week though, we ventured into the city. Usually we drive, but parking is disappearing in our CBD, and so we took the bus. That’s exactly what the Council wants us to do, but it’s a bit frustrating when we’re only 10 minutes by car! There were several exhibitions we wanted to see. My husband wanted to visit the Patagonian dinosaur exhibition that I’d seen at Christmas with my sister, nieces, and dinosaur-obsessed great-nephew, and I wanted to visit an art installation on the waterfront, and then a photography exhibition in one of the more interesting parts of town. We took our time, relaxed with a coffee by the lagoon, then went our separate ways, meeting up much later for lunch somewhere new, a visit to a book shop, and a stroll down the street looking at shops I had no interest in visiting, before another bus trip home. I admit I felt a little like a tourist in my own city.
It wasn’t exactly a mini-staycation, but it felt like one, simply because we hardly ever do this anymore. And we thoroughly enjoyed it. Usually, when I go into the city, I go for a reason, such as medical appointments, or shopping expeditions. I know exactly where I want to go, and visit specific shops – a gourmet food shop, or particular dress or shoe shops, hair salon, etc – or we choose a coastal restaurant for lunch, or we head out to other suburbs, where the parking is easy. Later we might drive in for drinks and dinner with friends. But I rarely go into the CBD these days. I spent enough time there when I was full-time employed, when I knew it all off by heart! I guess I can see the appeal of a staycation now. Maybe we’ll do it again soon. There are one or two more exhibitions I want to see, we could have a fancy afternoon tea somewhere or stay in for drinks and dinner, and it has been a while since we saw a play. Maybe we should even book a hotel room? Hmm. Staycations might be a good idea after all. One thing for certain is that next time, we won’t leave it so long.
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